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A few embarrassing questions regarding massage therapy

When it comes to massage, it is a completely normal and easy process for most people although for others there can be a few reservations. These include:

  • Do I keep my underwear on? Well this would mainly depend upon the type of premises you are visiting. For something like a tantric massage it would almost always involve being nude for the course of your therapy whereas for other types such as sports massage it would not. This also depends on the therapist as sometimes they will find it easier to massage with less obstructions and sometimes will even give you disposable underwear which is easier for them to carry out the massage with – best to agree this ahead of the therapy so there is no confusion
  • Talking to the therapist – Many people don’t really know whether it is rude NOT to talk to therapist during the session but this would be very uncommon. Its not like you are there at a dinner party and so most people will generally allow themselves to switch off and close their eyes and in many ways this actually will help with de-stressing the mind and body
  • Is this a naughty massage parlour – Sometimes believe it or not it can be quite difficult for some people to tell and there are plenty of stories whereby people have found themselves being offered a happy ending when they thought they were in an upmarket massage joint! – Here it is best to ask a few questions regarding what massage is on offer and what this will help with and maybe even some questions about whether the therapists are licensed practitioners etc.
  • Rather a Female – Some men may be quite averse to having a male therapist and if this is the case it really is best to communication this from the outset rather than wait until it is too late and have an uncomfortable experience with a masseur!

The key to receiving a good massage is all about good communication from the outset and basically not being afraid to ask a few simple questions!


What to expect from tantra workshops

Well first of all tantric or tantra massage training is something that some people may not be totally comfortable with as people really do need to ‘let loose’ in order to really get into this therapy. This means that even if they are slightly shy, nervous or worried they really do need to leave this at the door when they begin this journey.

People do tend to take different routes with this therapy. Some people may go for the more traditional tantra workshop route (which is also the cheaper and possibly better option), whereas others may prefer the more one to one method where you would simply pick your own masseuse where you could go either alone or with your partner for the massage sessions

Generally when you got to a group tantra workshop you will be paired up generally with your partner as you would in a private session, however there are some people that don’t have a partner and still want to learn and this is where things might be slightly more awkward being paired up with a complete stranger but it is whatever suits the individual.

The tantra workshops are not about people being naked and getting sensual. It is more about learning the different massage techniques and also breathing techniques and learning about the concepts of tantra.

When things take a more erotic turn, and you’re delving into the realms of sensual nude tantric massage, this will be the type of thing that would be set as a homework for example. Most people will find that although a lot of the exercises that are given are indeed very simple they are also extremely profound and do have quite an effect on the people studying tantra. They are not for the faint hearted but at the same time they are very necessary in order to learn these magical skills!

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Booking yourself in for a visiting massage

Massage in itself is thought of by many as quite a luxury these days as we are still very much in the midst of a global recession. Getting this service to your door or hotel is quite something else and really is the ultimate way to spoil yourself whilst under pressure with work or when just puyrely seeking some after hours R&R therapy.

There is a surprising number of massage establishments that provide these services, from your local happy ending thai massage parlour through to your luxury outcall tantric massage London agency who will always charge you a premium to send a sexy tantric masseuse to your door. If the girl is truly qualified in tantra then this is a fair price as learning this skill and craft takes many many years and a heaps of dedication!

One of the only drawbacks to getting an outcall or visiting therapist round to your abode, is that unless you have used the masseuse or the agency previously, sometimes you can feel like your are ‘buying blind’, whereas at least if you go to their place of business you are able to check out the masseuses on offer and then if they arent to your taste then you can politely decline and walk the other way!

This is why if you do decide to go for outcall then it is probably a good idea to do a bit of due diligence on the agency in question. It really does only take a couple of clicks of a mouse and a few phonecalls to get an idea if you are dealing with an authentic place, and one that shows original pictures of the girls, and not one that shows what the girls looked like 10 years ago!

When you are paying basically double the money to have the masseuse visit you, it really does pay to do a little research first!


Learning about Tantric Sex

This is something that seems to confuse many as to the real meaning. Some people thanks to some well known celebrities that go involved in the debate seem to think that tantric sex is like a marathon love making session, which it probably is in some cases, but at the essence of the teachings is learning about your partner more and gaining spiritual enlightment is more what tantric therapy is about.

In the most common ritual form of tantra, both parties will worship each other’s sacred spaces such as the lingam and the yoni. It is actually far more centred on the mindset and mental approach than the physical side. Having said all this we do find generally that people that are comfortable and actively involved in tantric teaching, will learn to have a greater staying power and sexual performance as they will be using various techniques that are taught to them by their spiritual teacher or their tantric guide.

Through controlling the mind each of the partners will be focused upon human touch and controlled breathing techniques. It is also very much a methodocial process for both parties and to gain the full benefit one must completely surrender themselves and immerse themselves in this tantric experience.

Wherever you are in the UK, Europe or the US you will find different practitioners who will facilitate the learning of tantra to different levels and many will welcome couples for learning this process together. Tantric Massage in London is one example of a business that is dedicated to helping couples learn and grow together spiritually through the use of tantric methodologies and to gain much more of an insight into themselves. This enlightenment can be a very enpowering experience and in so many cases can be life altering for people that choose this path at some point in their lives


Creating the right tantric atmosphere for massage

When you have decided to start indulging in tantric massage with your partner there are some rules that one should follow to really get the most out of this experience. First and foremost if you are under a lot of stress or pressure then you may as well forget about trying something like this as you need to make sure that your mind is completely clear. On the other hand if you into meditation or hypnotherapy you may still be able to clear you mind using these techniques even under stress or pressure.

The main tips before beginning this massage are:

Create right environment – Tantric massage is something that is never rushed and it involves spiritual consciousness and so we need to make sure that tranquility and calm are brought to the room where the massage takes place. This normally means scented candles and soft music. Both of these are important as they need to be subtle and romantic background addition and nothing too distracting. There are many different resources that one can download from youtube or some other music sitesfor the perfect sounds

The right equipment – To give a very sensual tantric massage you will want to make sure that you also have the right massage oil for the job. Something that smells nice, is good quality and not too thick a consistency would be perfect! If you can then good quality massage table would be perfect, or if not a decent quality bed with a quality mattress will suffice, especially for those new to tantra.

Seduction – When giving a tantric massage to your partner you would probably want to dress for the occassion and so something sexy and seductive would be perfect and would help to get the atmoshpere right for proceedings.

By foolowing these three simple rules you should be well on your way to your first tantric massage. We also offer couples training on this and our tantric massage city of London service is second to none and has produced some great results for couples across the UK!


The best location for a massage parlour

Starting a new massage parlour in London is no easy thing to do. There are many pitfalls and of course different things to bear in mind but like anything it really is locaton location location! You really have to cater for the masses when setting up shop as a massage business and for this you will need to choose your location carefully especially if you are mainly focusing on incall massage where the clients come to your location.

If you are operating some kind of visiting service then it is important but obviously less so as clients will not be visiting your place but you will still need to be somewhere quite central. If you are going to be having a lot of clients coming to your place then you will need somewhere that has good transport links and also you willneed to make sure that the place is in very good condition. There is really nothing worse than clients not returning due to sub standard quality of workmanship within the property

You will also need somewhere big enough to set up shop properly, which means adequate space for massage tables and a waiting room possibly depending on how you are operating. Another thing is you will need to make sure that the property is fairly easy to find and easily distinguishable so that clients dont ewnd up going to your neighbours next door!

One example of a local london massage parlour that seem to have the right idea is Sexy Tantric. They operate a adult tantric massage in West London and are located in an upmarket part of Chelsea in South West London. We have received many different reviews on this place and they really do seem to be operating a good service and have a nice and conveient location for their customers!